We Can Still Make "Forever" Possible, Though It Is Often Hard
Something(related to the law of nature quite known to us) in the future can be predictable, like the sunrise and sunset, the transition of the seasons, the "dust thou art, to dust returnest " things, but we are uncertain about too many other things lying ahead of us. That's why we are often vulnerable to the freak of the fate. When circumstances are changing/changed we will find ourselves compelled to get changed ( against our own pledge though). Sometimes we are the only the agent of the changes....we just cant manage to be so great as to observe a commitment just for the sake of the commitment.
So before we are sure of what we mean by saying " forever" , or before we are positive that we are willing to fulfill or really capable of fulfiling a promise. dont say " I will forever" so readily.
To preserve people's faith in the utterance of "forever" , I would choose to actualize a promise for the sake of a promise. And to make the mission easier, I would choose not to utter a promise freely from the very beginning.
Meanwhile , to free myself from being a chronical complainer, I would choose to be more understanding of all the inducing factors.and to better protect myself from being hurt , I would choose not to feed on the word" forever"from the very beginning.
I know "it is always easier said than done! " But isnt saying it and being aware of it a step closer to accomplishing it?
