One Marriage,One Story
The man I known him well for a long time; the lady, I just came across on internet and the only thing I knew about is she is the man’s wife. And by the way, this man and this young lady had already brought a baby, 4 months old girl, to our planet.
Firstly, I think man and woman would be delighted with their newborn daughter and their family life, but it seems not simply as I catch only a glimpse from verge of their marriage.
The man is my schoolfellow; we graduated from same university on the same day of the year. And I had ever worked with him in same company for nearly 3 yrs. But we didn’t dismiss from the company at the same time. Before I quitted, he had himself went back to our university and continue to his master degree. The lady is also my schoolfellow, but I was supposed beginning my career for one year before this lady become a college student. Sometimes, I don’t think people’s life is decided by God’s wishes, it’s a choice of people’s own. See, this man and this lady, they met each other only because the man went to back university and the lady wanted to be college students. I don’t know so many details of their love stories on campus. But I know now they separated for a long period. And I guess possibly the baby hasn’t caught her father’s face since she can firstly use her lovely eyes observing this world. So miserable for a little baby, but actually her birth is completely legal in our land. Her mother and father got married and have the certificates from officials.
What happened? I don’t know.
The lady asked me on internet:" you know him well? Do you think he is a responsible man? ", so I don’t think this lady herself really aware of what happened in their marriage either.
I said the man is nice, and I talked a lot with him when we were together. But I can’t figure out what would make a father refuse his natural desire to hug his son or daughter. It unreasonable, even can say ridiculous.
I communicated with this lady for hours as forced accepting her apologies for interrupting me. And what I can do is promised to this lady I will persuade the man to come back to his family whenever I can reach him or find him. I’m not so confident with my words, because the man’s number changed and most importantly I don’t know what really happened in their relationship, also I don’t think it’s wise to penetrate from this lady and make a comment on their marriage.
The night I called several friends and want to get the man’s new number, but failed. The following days I give a call to the man’s office and only be sure he went to Mongolia, not one of his colleagues know how to reach him.
这是发生的真实事情，那女子说，师兄，我给你看看我孩子，就发过来4个月大的小女孩的照片，，我看了，很可爱，但是她却给孩子起名筱然，我说名字不好，起个好一点的，她却说，这孩子命苦。我不知道如何说，其实，很有可能他们的事情会影响这个小生命一辈子，挺可怕的。而他，是我曾同甘共苦过的一个兄弟，说实在的，人的确不错，这几年来我们虽然没有在一起聚过，但是常联系的，我在前不久还问起过他的事情，但是前几天给他电话的时候却发现停机了。于是在他私人的地盘留言，希望他联系我，不过却意外的被他妻子看到了，然后他妻子就以为我这里有他的消息，故此联系我和她说了那么多。
这世界不知道是男人有罪还是女人有罪，不过真心的祝福小侄女，能够开心健康的成长。
